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Should
Parents of Bullies Pay?
Teen
Punished for Stopping Bullies From Harassing a Special Needs
Girl
Policies
& Laws
Key
Components in State Anti-Bullying
Laws
Federal
Laws
Harassment
and Bullying (October 26, 2010) Background, Summary, and
Fast Facts
Be
more than a bystander
Oregon
Anti-Bullying Laws & Policies
Are
we happy with the minimum the law requires or are we open to
going beyond the minimum legal
expectations?
Oregon
Legislative History
Washington
Legislative History
What
is Bullying
What
is Cyberbullying
Who's
at Risk?
Warning
Signs
Effects
of Bullying
Considerations
for Specific Groups
How
to Talk About Bullying
Prevention
at School
Working
in the Community
Stop
Bullying on the Spot
Find
Out What Happened
Support
the Kids Involved
Get
Help Now
Oregon
Anti-Bullying Laws & Policies
Avoid
strategies that dont work or have negative
consequences
Should
Parents of Bullies Pay?
The Wisconsin town of Monona has taken a big step in the
effort to fight bullying with an unusual new law,
threatening to fine both the bully and his or her parents
upward of $114.
We dont
have a bullying problem any more than anywhere else, but
its been escalating nationally, we just want to try to
take an extra step to fight it, Monona Police Sgt.
Ryan Losby told Yahoo! Shine. Its for the
parents out there who either wont do anything to try
and stop their kids from bullying, or for those who
encourage it.
Losby, who drafted the
law after being inspired by a similar, 2010 law in nearby
Milton, said the new ordinance is meant only as a last
resort when dealing with parents of bullies who refuse to
cooperate with the school and police. The part that targets
moms and dads, called the parental
responsibility piece of the law, can fine the parents
of a bully $114 for a first offense and $177 for subsequent
ones, but only after sufficient warning, in writing.
More on Yahoo!: Kids
Exposed to Poor Parenting Likelier to Get Bullied
Other parts of the
broad ordinance prohibit retaliation for reporting bullies,
as well as general harassment between adults, subjecting all
scofflawsincluding a child bully, as long as he or she
is over the age of 12to those same fines.
Technically,
both the bully and the parent could be cited at the same
time, Losby said. But it would be very
rare.
While all states
except Montana currently have anti-bullying laws in place,
local ordinances are not as across-the-board. New York
Citys Department of Education, though, proposed a law
just this week that would require staff members who witness
bullying to report it to authorities within 10 days.
(Similarly, a Wisconsin state law proposed in March would
fine teachers $200 for not reporting bullying incidents.)
And in Milton, the law
that inspired Losby levies fines of $100 to $500 against
proven bullies.
Mononas law is
unique, though, because of how it targets parents. "This is
the first time that we have heard of issuing a citation to
parents because their child is bullying," Julie Hertzog,
director of PACER's National Bullying Prevention Center,
told Shine. "Communities are clearly looking for new ways to
deal with the issue."
And, though their
reviews are mixed, most experts agree its at least
step in the right direction.
I think it sends
a message that is positive, which is we take bullying
seriously and, as a parent, you have to take it seriously,
too, national anti-bully expert, speaker and author
Joel Haber told Shine. He added that the law takes the
important step of informing parents about what their kids
are up to, and that its healthy just
having discussion around the law. Whether it will work
or not, he said, we dont
know.
Ross Ellis, CEO of the
STOMP Out Bullying advocacy organization, told Shine she
thought the law could be a good tool when dealing with
uncooperative parents. I think its really
important, because the parents need to step up, she
said. Still, you can fine the parents, but the kids
need to get help. There should be a part of the law that
says if youre fined, you should have to get your kid
help, as well. Because, she wondered, is a parent
going to be so upset about getting fined that theyll
then take it out on the kid who was bullying in the first
place? So its good, she said, but I
think it needs more.
Shawn Gaylord,
director of public policy at the Gay, Lesbian and Straight
Education Network, which advocates nationally for
anti-bullying law and policies, was not sold on the law.
Although we believe that educators, parents, and
community members should be engaged collectively around
school climate and issues related to bullying, a fine on
families, however well-intentioned, is not a productive
contribution to the conversation and would
disproportionately impact those with limited incomes,
he told Shine, adding that it was troubling that people get
fined at the discretion of the police. All in all, he added,
the approach gets parents involved too late, and emphasis
should instead be on teaching empathy and compassion early
on.
Finally, Brenda High,
whose son Jared took his own life at 13 after being bullied
at school, and who now runs the watchdog Bully Police USA,
said she felt the law would help make the schools more
accountable, as well as parents, which was encouraging. But
despite the loss of her son, she added that its the
rare parent who wouldnt try to help out after learning
about a child who was bullying. Id say in 75
percent of bullying cases, the parents have no clue, and are
shocked when they hear about it, she said.
And she agrees with
Ellis that the solution should go deeper than a fine.
If the bullying doesnt stop after that, I think
they ought to require that the kid be taken out of the
school, because youve got to wonder what is going on
in the mind of a child who thinks its okay to hurt
another child, she said. Theres something
emotionally wrong with that child, and they need help.
(Editor: We've
got a whole culture that teaches bullying. Jerry Spring Show
was one of the early manifestations. Bring someone on the
show thinking he or she is going to be acknowledged for
something and then shame them on national TV. Then there's
Reality TV, making sport of shaming each other on
Bachelor/et shows, on the High School football field,
parents in the stands of their kid's baseball or football
game. Watching their parents argue and/or fight. That's
where it starts. Kids emulating adults, since that's how
adults communicate and so it must be okay. Put the parents
in therapy, first, so the kid has a healthy place to come
home to and that we reinforce a more positive behavior.
Trying to get her/him to change and send them home to the
same shaming situation will backfire.)
Source:
shine.yahoo.com/parenting/should-parents-of-bullies-pay-for-their-kid-s-actions--wisconsin-town-thinks-so--192525499.html
Teen
Punished for Stopping Bullies From Harassing a Special Needs
Girl
Bullying incident raises the question: Why are schools slow
to respond to harassment complaints?
A Florida high school
student made a stand against bullying and is now in the hot
seat with school officials. For months, 18-year-old Stormy
Rich witnessed a girl with special needs being bullied by
her peers on the way to school. "They would be mean to her,
tell her she couldn't sit on certain spots on the bus...just
because she doesn't understand doesn't mean that should be
happening to her," Rich told WOFL-TV.
Rich says she reported
the incidents to the bus driver and school officials. When
they didn't take action, she stepped in and confronted the
bullies; but instead of being praised for her efforts, Rich
ended up being labeled as a bully, and her bus-riding
privileges were revoked. A spokesperson for the school
district said, "Two wrongs don't make a right" and that the
girl with special needs never complained about being
bullied.
Stormy's mother,
Brenda, told The Daily Commercial, "My daughter was punished
incorrectly. Stormy was standing up for a child with
emotionally challenged disabilities that should not have
been bullied. The district's policy clearly states that
anybody in good faith files a report on bullying will not
face any repercussions and she is."
What exactly was said
on the bus is unclear; however, if a student says bullies
are harassing another child, why does it take so long for
schools to take action? We live in a country where 13
million kids are bullied each year and more often than not,
the behavior occurs on the bus.
This is far from the
first report of a teacher or bus driver turning a blind eye
to bullying. ABC reports, "In one taped incident, two girls
took turns punching another girl in the head and pulling out
clumps of her hair. The driver, the only adult on the bus,
continued driving the vehicle during the attack."
The bottom line is
something more needs to be done to combat bullying in our
schools. Three million students will be absent from school
this month because of the emotional and physical toll of
bullying, and according to the organization Ability Path,
children with disabilities are significantly more likely
than their peers to be the victims of this mistreatment
Source:
www.takepart.com/article/2012/05/29/teen-punished-stopping-bullies-harassing-special-needs-girl
Policies
& Laws
State and local lawmakers have taken action to prevent
bullying and protect children. Through laws (in their state
education codes and elsewhere) and model policies (that
provide guidance to districts and schools), each state
addresses bullying differently. Find out how your state
refers to bullying in its laws and what they require on part
of schools and districts.
Bullying,
cyberbullying, and related behaviors may be addressed in a
single law or may be addressed in multiple laws. In some
cases, bullying appears in the criminal code of a state that
may apply to juveniles.
In December 2010, the
U.S. Department of Education reviewed state laws and
identified 11
key components
common among many of those laws.
Click on your state
below to find out more about your states anti-bullying
laws and policies and which of the key components they
contain.
Key
Components in State Anti-Bullying Laws
Below are examples of 11 key components that may be
useful to those who are creating or improving anti-bullying
laws or policies in their states. Any citations to state
laws are intended to be examples and not endorsements of
those laws.
States and local
educational agencies (LEAs) should check with their state
and local officials to ensure consistency with all
applicable federal and state laws. Read Education Secretary
Duncans full technical assistance memo.
Purpose
Statement
Outlines the
range of detrimental effects bullying has on students,
including impacts on student learning, school safety,
student engagement, and the school environment.
Declares that any
form, type, or level of bullying is unacceptable, and
that every incident needs to be taken seriously by school
administrators, school staff (including teachers),
students, and students families.
Example Purpose
Statement
Oklahoma:
Okla. Stat. Ann. Tit. 70, § 24-100.3 (2009): "The
Legislature finds that bullying has a negative effect on
the social environment of schools, creates a climate of
fear among students, inhibits their ability to learn, and
leads to other antisocial behavior. Bullying behavior has
been linked to other forms of antisocial behavior, such
as vandalism, shoplifting, skipping and dropping out of
school, fighting, and the use of drugs and alcohol...
Successful programs to recognize, prevent, and
effectively intervene in bullying behavior have been
developed and replicated in schools across the country.
These schools send the message that bullying behavior is
not tolerated and, as a result, have improved safety and
created a more inclusive learning environment."
For additional
examples of purpose statements, see: 105 Ill. Comp. Stat.
Ann. 5/27-23.7.a (2010); Iowa Code § 280.28.1
(2008); Md. Code Ann., Educ. § 7-424 (2010); Nev.
Rev. Stat. Ann. § 388.132 (2009); N.J. Stat. Ann.
§ 18A:37.13 (2010); Or. Rev. Stat. § 339.353
(2009); Tenn. Code Ann. § 49-6-1014 (2010); W. Va.
Code Ann. § 18-2C-1 (2009).
Statement of
Scope
Covers conduct that
occurs on the school campus, at school-sponsored activities
or events (regardless of the location), on school-provided
transportation, or through school-owned technology or that
otherwise creates a significant disruption to the school
environment.
Example Statement of
Scope
Indiana: Ind.
Code Ann. § 20-33-8-13.5 (b) (2010), Disciplinary
Rule Requirements: "The discipline rules [related to
bullying]...must apply when a student is: (1) on
school grounds immediately before or during school hours,
immediately after school hours, or at any other time when
the school is being used by a school group; (2) off
school grounds at a school activity, function, or event;
(3) traveling to or from school or a school activity,
function or event; or (4) using property or equipment
provided by the school."
For additional
examples of statements of scope, see: Ark. Code Ann.
§ 6-18-514.2 (2009); Ga. Code Ann. § 20-2-751.4
(2010); 105 Ill. Comp. Stat. Ann. 5/27-23.7.a (2010);
2010 Mass. Adv. Legis. Serv. Ch. No. 92-2010 (Lexis Nexis
2010); Md. Code Ann., Educ. § 7-424
(2010).
Specification of
Prohibited Conduct
Provides a
specific definition of bullying that includes a clear
definition of cyberbullying. The definition of bullying
includes a non-exclusive list of specific behaviors that
constitute bullying, and specifies that bullying includes
intentional efforts to harm one or more individuals, may
be direct or indirect, is not limited to behaviors that
cause physical harm, and may be verbal (including oral
and written language) or non-verbal. The definition of
bullying can be easily understood and interpreted by
school boards, policymakers, school administrators,
school staff, students, students families, and the
community.
Is consistent with
other federal, state and local laws. (For guidance on
school districts obligations to address bullying
and harassment under federal civil rights laws, see the
Dear Colleague Letter: Harassment and Bullying [PDF
295 KB], issued by the Departments Office for
Civil Rights on October 26, 2010.
Prohibited Conduct
also includes:
Retaliation
for asserting or alleging an act of bullying.
Perpetuating
bullying or harassing conduct by spreading hurtful or
demeaning material even if the material was created by
another person (e.g., forwarding offensive e-mails or
text messages).
Examples
Specification of Prohibited Conduct
Florida: Fla.
Stat. Ann. 1006.147(3) (2010): "(a)
Bullying means systematically and
chronically inflicting physical hurt or psychological
distress on one or more students and may involve: (1)
Teasing; (2) Social exclusion; (3) Threat; (4)
Intimidation; (5) Stalking; (6) Physical violence; (7)
Theft; (8) Sexual, religious, or racial harassment;
(9) Public humiliation; or (10) Destruction of
property. . . . (d) The definitions of
bullying and harassment
include: (1) Retaliation against a student or school
employee by another student or school employee for
asserting or alleging an act of bullying or
harassment...[and] (2) Perpetuation of
[bullying or harassing] conduct ... by an
individual or group with intent to demean, dehumanize,
embarrass, or cause physical harm to a
student..."
Kansas: Kan.
Stat. Ann. § 72-8256.C.2 (2009):
"Cyberbullying means bullying by use of
any electronic communication device through means
including, but not limited to, e-mail, instant
messaging, text messages, blogs, mobile phones,
pagers, online games and websites."
For additional
examples of bullying definitions, see: Del. Code Ann.
Tit. 14, § 4112D.a (2010); Kan. Stat. Ann. §
72-8256 (2009); 105 Ill. Comp. Stat. Ann. 5/27-23.7(b)
(2010).
For additional
examples of cyberbullying definitions, see: Iowa Code
§ 280.28.2 (a) (2008); Md. Code Ann., Educ.
§ 7-424.3 (2010); 2010 Mass. Adv. Legis. Serv.
Ch. No. 92-2010 (Lexis Nexis 2010); N.J. Stat. Ann.
§ 18A 37.14.2 (2010); Okla. Stat. Ann. Tit. 70,
§ 24-100.3 (2009).
Enumeration of
Specific Characteristics
Explains that
bullying may include, but is not limited to, acts based
on actual or perceived characteristics of students who
have historically been targets of bullying, and provides
examples of such characteristics.
Makes clear that
bullying does not have to be based on any particular
characteristic.
Examples Enumeration
of Specific Characteristics
North
Carolina: N.C. Gen. Stat. § 115C-407.15(a) (2010):
"Bullying or harassing behavior includes, but is not
limited to, acts reasonably perceived as being motivated
by any actual or perceived differentiating
characteristic, such as race, color, religion, ancestry,
national origin, gender, socioeconomic status, academic
status, gender identity, physical appearance, sexual
orientation, or mental, physical, developmental, or
sensory disability, or by association with a person who
has or is perceived to have one or more of these
characteristics."
Washington: Wash.
Rev. Code Ann. § 28A.300.285.2 (2010): "Nothing in
this section requires the affected student to actually
possess a characteristic that is a basis for
the...bullying."
For additional
examples of characteristic enumeration, see: 105 Ill.
Comp. Stat. Ann. 5/27-23.7.a (2010); Iowa Code §
280.28 (2008); Or. Rev. Stat. § §
339.351.3(2009).
Development and
Implementation of LEA Policies
Directs every LEA to
develop and implement a policy prohibiting bullying, through
a collaborative process with all interested stakeholders,
including school administrators, staff, students,
students families, and the community, in order to best
address local conditions.
Example Development
and Implementation of LEA Policies
Maryland: Md.
Code Ann., Educ. § 7-424.1(c) (2010): "[1]
Each county board shall establish a policy prohibiting
bullying, harassment, or intimidation. . . . [3]
A county board shall develop the policy in consultation
with representatives of the following groups: (i) Parents
or guardians of students; (ii) School employees and
administrators; (iii) School volunteers; (iv) Students;
and (v) Members of the community"[vi]
For additional
examples of requirements for LEA policies, see: Del. Code
Ann. Tit. 14, § 4112D.b (2010); Fla. Stat. Ann.
1006.147 (2010); N.J. Stat. Ann. § 18A 37.15
(2010).
Components of LEA
Policies
A.
Definitions
Includes a definition
of bullying consistent with the definitions specified in
state law.
Example Components of
LEA Policies: Definitions
Oregon: Or.
Rev. Stat. § 339.356.2 (2009): "School districts
must include in the policy...(b) Definitions of
"harassment," "intimidation," or "bullying," and of
"cyberbullying" that are consistent with [this
statute]."
For additional
examples regarding definitions in LEA policies, see:
Delaware Del. Code Ann. Tit. 14, § 4112D.b (2010);
Fla. Stat. Ann. 1006.147 (2010); Iowa Code 280.28.3
(2008); Md. Code Ann., Educ. § 7-424.1 (2010); N.J.
Stat. Ann. § 18A 37.15.b.2 (2010); N.C. Gen.
Stat.§ 115C-407.16.b.2 (2010); S.C. Code Ann. §
59-63-140 (2010).
B. Report
Bullying
Includes a
procedure for students, students families, staff,
and others to report incidents of bullying, including a
process to submit such information anonymously and with
protection from retaliation. The procedure identifies and
provides contact information for the appropriate school
personnel responsible for receiving the report and
investigating the incident.
Requires that
school personnel report, in a timely and responsive
manner, incidents of bullying they witness or are aware
of to a designated official.
Example Components of
LEA Policies: Reporting Bullying
Georgia: GA.
Code Ann. § 20-2-751.4(c) (2010): "Such ... policy
shall include: ... (5) A procedure for a teacher or other
school employee, student, parent, guardian, or other
person who has control or charge of a student, either
anonymously or in such person's name, at such
persons option, to report or otherwise provide
information on bullying activity; (6) A statement
prohibiting retaliation following a report of
bullying...."
For additional
examples regarding requirements procedures for reporting
bullying, see: Ariz. Rev. Stat. § 14-341 (2010);
Fla. Stat. Ann. § 1006.147 (2010); Iowa Code §
280.28.3.c (2008); Md. Code Ann., Educ. § 7-424
(2010); Or. Rev. Stat. § 339.356.2.g (2009); S.C.
Code Ann. § 59-63-140 (2010).
Wisconsin: Wis.
Stat. § 118.46.1(a) (2009): "The [policy on
bullying] shall include all of the following: ...(6)
A requirement that school district officials and
employees report incidents of bullying and identify the
persons to whom the reports must be made."
For additional
examples regarding requirements for reporting of school
staff, see: Alaska Stat. § 14.33.220 (2010); GA.
Code Ann. § 20-2-751.4.c.2 (2010); W. Va. Code Ann.
§18-2C-3.4 (2009).
C. Investigating
and Responding to Bullying
Includes a procedure
for promptly investigating and responding to any report of
an incident of bullying, including immediate intervention
strategies for protecting the victim from additional
bullying or retaliation, and includes notification to
parents of the victim, or reported victim, of bullying and
the parents of the alleged perpetrator, and, if appropriate,
notification to law enforcement officials.
Example Components of
LEA Policies: Investigating and Responding to
Bullying
Massachusetts:
2010 Mass. Adv. Legis. Serv. Ch. No. 71.37O(g) (2010):
"...Upon receipt of such a report, the school principal
or a designee shall promptly conduct an investigation. If
the school principal or a designee determines that
bullying or retaliation has occurred, the school
principal or designee shall (i) notify the local law
enforcement agency if the school principal or designee
believes that criminal charges may be pursued against a
perpetrator; (ii) take appropriate disciplinary action;
(iii) notify the parents or guardians of a perpetrator;
and (iv) notify the parents or guardians of the victim,
and to the extent consistent with state and federal law,
notify them of the action taken to prevent any further
acts of bullying or retaliation."
The Family
Educational Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA) contains
provisions restricting release of information pertaining
to disciplinary actions taken against students. State and
local officials are encouraged to seek guidance to make
sure any policies comply with these
provisions.
For additional
examples regarding requirements for investigating and
responding to bullying, see: GA. Code Ann. §
20-2-751.4.c.3 (2010); Iowa Cod § 280.28.3.f (2008);
Or. Rev. Stat. § 339.356.2.h (2009).
D. Written
Records
Includes a procedure
for maintaining written records of all incidents of bullying
and their resolution.
Example Components of
LEA Policies: Written Records
California:
Cal. Educ. Code § 234.1 (2010): "The department
shall assess whether local educational agencies have done
all of the following: . . . (e) Maintained documentation
of complaints and their resolution for a minimum of one
review cycle."
FERPA contains
provisions regarding the appropriate safeguarding of
privacy in educational records. State and local officials
are encouraged to seek guidance to make sure any policies
comply with these provisions.
For additional
examples on requirements for maintaining written records,
see: Md. Code Ann., Educ. § 7-424 (2010).
E.
Sanctions
Includes a detailed
description of a graduated range of consequences and
sanctions for bullying.
Example Components of
LEA Policies: Sanctions
Alabama: Ala.
Code § 16.28B.5 (2010): "The model policy, at a
minimum, shall contain all of the following components: .
. . [4] A series of graduated consequences for
any student who commits an act of intimidation,
harassment, violence or threats of violence. Punishment
shall conform with applicable federal and state
disability, antidiscrimination, and education laws and
school discipline policies."
The Individuals
with Disabilities Education Act contains provisions
related to the use of disciplinary measures with students
with disabilities. State and local officials are
encouraged to seek guidance to make sure any policies
comply with these provisions.
For additional
examples regarding sanctions, see: Connecticut Gen. Stat.
Ann § 10-222d; Massachusetts St. 2010, c.92; New
Mexico NIMAC § 6.12.7; Okla. Stat. Ann. Tit. 70,
§ 24-100.4 (2009).
F.
Referrals
Includes a procedure
for referring the victim, perpetrator and others to
counseling and mental and other health services, as
appropriate.
Example Components of
LEA Policies: Referrals
Maryland: Md.
Code. Ann., Educ. § 7-424.1.b (2010): "[2]
The model policy...shall include: ... (viii) Information
about the types of support services available to the
student bully, victim, and any bystanders...."
For additional
examples regarding referrals, see: Fla. Stat. Ann. §
1006.147 (2010); Okla. Stat. Ann. Tit. 70, §
24-100.4 (2009).
Review of Local
Policies
Includes a provision
for the state to review local policies on a regular basis to
ensure the goals of the state statute are met.
Example Review of
Local Policies
Illinois: 105
Ill. Comp. Stat. Ann. 5/27-23.7(d) (2010): "The policy
must be updated every 2 years and filed with the State
Board of Education after being updated. The State Board
of Education shall monitor the implementation of policies
created under [this subsection of the
statute]."
For additional
examples regarding review of policies, see: 24 Pa. Cons.
Stat. Ann. § 13-1303.1-a (2009).
Communication
Plan
Includes a plan for
notifying students, students families, and staff of
policies related to bullying, including the consequences for
engaging in bullying.
Example Communication
Plan
Arkansas:
Ark. Code Ann. § 6-18-514(b) (2009): "The policies
shall: ...[6] Require that notice of what
constitutes bullying, that bullying is prohibited, and
the consequences of engaging in bullying be conspicuously
posted in every classroom, cafeteria, restroom,
gymnasium, auditorium, and school bus in the district;
and [7] Require that copies of the notice...be
provided to parents, students, school volunteers, and
employees."
For additional
examples regarding communication plans, see: Del. Code
Ann. Tit. 14, § 4123.a (2010); Fla. Stat. Ann.
§ 1006.147 (2010); Iowa Code § 280.28.3 (2008);
N.J. Stat. Ann. § 18A 37.15.b.10-11
(2010).
Training and
Preventive Education
Includes a
provision for school districts to provide training for
all school staff, including, but not limited to,
teachers, aides, support staff, and school bus drivers,
on preventing, identifying, and responding to
bullying.
Encourages school
districts to implement age-appropriate school- and
community-wide bullying prevention programs.
Example Training and
Preventive Education
South
Carolina: S.C. Code Ann. § 59-63-140(E) (2009):
"Information regarding a local school district policy
against harassment, intimidation or bullying must be
incorporated into a school employee training program.
Training also should be provided to school volunteers who
have significant contact with students.
Massachusetts: 2010
Mass. Adv. Legis. Serv. Ch. No. 92.3(d)-2010: "The
plan...shall include a provision for ongoing professional
development to build the skills of all staff members,
including, but not limited to, educators, administrators,
school nurses, cafeteria workers, custodians, bus
drivers, athletic coaches, advisors to extracurricular
activities and paraprofessionals, to prevent, identify
and respond to bullying."
For additional
examples regarding training of staff, see: Conn. Gen.
Stat. § 10-222d (2010); Del. Code Ann. Tit. 14,
§ 4123.a (2010); Iowa Code § 280.28.3 (2008);
Nev. Rev. Stat. Ann.§ 383.133 (2009); Or. Rev. Stat.
§ 339.359 (2009); Wyo. Stat. Ann. § 21-4-311
(2010).
South Carolina:
S.C. Code Ann. § 59-63-140 (F) (2009): "Schools and
school districts are encouraged to establish bullying
prevention programs and other initiatives involving
school staff, students, administrators, volunteers,
parents, law enforcement, and community
members."
For additional
examples regarding bullying prevention programming, see:
Md. Code Ann., Educ. § 7-424 (2010); 2010 Mass. Adv.
Legis. Serv. Ch. No. 92-2010 (Lexis Nexis 2010); Or. Rev.
Stat. § 339.359 (2009).
Transparency and
Monitoring
Includes a
provision for LEAs to report annually to the state on the
number of reported bullying incidents, and any responsive
actions taken.
Includes a
provision for LEAs to make data regarding bullying
incidence publicly available in aggregate with
appropriate privacy protections to ensure students are
protected.
Example Transparency
and Monitoring
New York:
N.Y. Educ. Law §15 (2010): "The Commissioner shall
create a procedure under which material incidents of
discrimination and harassment on school grounds or at a
school function are reported to the department at least
on an annual basis. Such procedure shall provide that
such reports shall, wherever possible, also delineate the
specific nature of such incidents..."
For additional
examples regarding reporting incidents to the State, see:
Alaska Stat. § 14.33.210 (2010); Conn. Gen. Stat.
§ 10-222d (2010); Md. Code Ann., Educ. § 7-424
(2010);
Iowa: Iowa Code
§ 280.28.7 (2008): "The board of directors of a
school district and the authorities in charge of each
nonpublic school...shall report data collected...as
specified by the department, to the local
community."
Ohio: Ohio Rev.
Code Ann. § 3313.666.10 (2010): "...the district
administration... [shall] provide ... a written
summary of all reported incidents and post the summary on
its web site...."
FERPA contains
provisions regarding the appropriate safeguarding of
privacy in educational records. State and local officials
are encouraged to seek guidance to make sure any policies
comply with these provisions.
For additional
examples regarding requirements for reporting data to the
public, see: Fla. Stat. Ann. § 1006.147 (2010); Iowa
Code § 280.28 (2008).
Statement of Rights
to Other Legal Recourse
Includes a statement
that the policy does not preclude victims from seeking other
legal remedies.
Example
Statement of Rights to Other Legal Recourse
Oregon: Or. Rev.
Stat. Ann. § 339.364 (2009): "Victim may seek
redress under other laws. ...[This statute] may
not be interpreted to prevent a victim of harassment,
intimidation or bullying or a victim of cyberbullying
from seeking redress under any other available law,
whether civil or criminal."
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/laws/key-components/index.html
Federal
Laws
Addressing Harassment
The U.S. Department of
Educations Office for Civil Rights has released
several guidance letters on the obligation for schools to
address harassment and specific considerations for sexual
harassment and disability harassment.
Although no federal
law directly addresses bullying, in some cases, bullying
overlaps with discriminatory harassment when it is based on
race, national origin, color, sex, age, disability, or
religion. When bullying and harassment overlap,
federally-funded schools (including colleges and
universities) have an obligation to resolve the harassment.
When the situation is not adequately resolved, the U.S.
Department of Educations Office for Civil Rights and
the U.S. Department of Justices Civil Rights Division
may be able to help.
Are there federal
laws that apply to bullying?
At present, no federal
law directly addresses bullying. In some cases, bullying
overlaps with discriminatory harassment which is covered
under federal civil rights laws enforced by the U.S.
Department of Education (ED) and the U.S. Department of
Justice (DOJ). No matter what label is used (e.g., bullying,
hazing, teasing), schools are obligated by these laws to
address conduct that is:
Severe,
pervasive or persistent
Creates a hostile
environment at school. That is, it is sufficiently
serious that it interferes with or limits a
students ability to participate in or benefit from
the services, activities, or opportunities offered by a
school
Based on a
students race, color, national origin, sex,
disability, or religion*
Although
the US Department of Education, under Title VI of the
Civil Rights Act of 1964 does not directly cover
religion, often religious based harassment is based on
shared ancestry of ethnic characteristics which is
covered. The US Department of Justice has jurisdiction
over religion under Title IV of the Civil Rights Act
of 1964.
What are the
federal civil rights laws ED and DOJ enforce?
A school that
fails to respond appropriately to harassment of students
based on a protected class may be violating one or more
civil rights laws enforced by the Department of Education
and the Department of Justice, including:
Title IV
and Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964
Title IX of the
Education Amendments of 1972
Section 504 of
the Rehabilitation Act of 1973
Titles II and
III of the Americans with Disabilities Act
Individuals with
Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)
Do federal civil
rights laws cover harassment of LGBT youth?
Title IX and
Title IV do not prohibit discrimination based solely on
sexual orientation, but they protect all students,
including students who are LGBT or perceived to be LGBT,
from sex-based harassment.
Harassment based on
sex and sexual orientation are not mutually exclusive.
When students are harassed based on their actual or
perceived sexual orientation, they may also be subjected
to forms of sex discrimination recognized under Title
IX.
What is an example
of a case were harassment based on sex and sexual
orientation overlap?
A female high
school student was spit on, slammed into lockers, mocked,
and routinely called names because she did not conform to
feminine stereotypes and because of her sexual
orientation. The student had short hair, a deep voice,
and wore male clothing. After the harassment started, she
told some classmates she was a lesbian, and the
harassment worsened. The school described the harassment
as sexual orientation harassment in its
incident reports and did not take any action.
In this case, the
student was harassed based on her non-conformity to
gender stereotypes. In this case, then, although the
school labeled the incident as sexual orientation
harassment, the harassment was also based on sex
and covered under Title IX.
What are a
schools obligations regarding harassment based on
protected classes?
Anyone can report
harassing conduct to a school. When a school receives a
complaint they must take certain steps to investigate and
resolve the situation.
Immediate and
appropriate action to investigate or otherwise determine
what happened.
Inquiry must be
prompt, thorough, and impartial.
Interview targeted
students, offending students, and witnesses, and maintain
written documentation of investigation
Communicate with
targeted students regarding steps taken to end
harassment
Check in with
targeted students to ensure that harassment has
ceased
When an
investigation reveals that harassment has occurred, a
school should take steps reasonably calculated
to:
End the
harassment,
Eliminate any
hostile environment,
Prevent
harassment from recurring, and
Prevent
retaliation against the targeted student(s) or
complainant(s).
What should a
school do to resolve a harassment complaint?
Appropriate
responses will depend on the facts of each case.
School must be an
active participant in responding to harassment and should
take reasonable steps when crafting remedies to minimize
burdens on the targeted students.
Possible responses
include:
Develop,
revise, and publicize:
Policy
prohibiting harassment and discrimination
Grievance
procedures for students to file harassment
complaints
contact
information for Title IX/Section 504/Title VI
coordinators
Implement
training for staff and administration on identifying
and addressing harassment
Provide monitors
or additional adult supervision in areas where
harassment occurs
Determine
consequences and services for harassers, including
whether discipline is appropriate
Limit
interactions between harassers and targets
Provide harassed
student an additional opportunity to obtain a benefit
that was denied (e.g., retaking a
test/class).
Provide services
to a student who was denied a benefit (e.g., academic
support services).
Are there resources
for schools to assist with resolving harassment
complaints?
The Department of
Justices Community Relations Service is the
Department's "peacemaker" for community conflicts and
tensions arising from differences of race, color and
national origin and to prevent and respond to violent hate
crimes committed on the basis of: gender, gender identity,
sexual orientation, religion, disability, race, color, and
national origin. It is a free, impartial, confidential and
voluntary Federal Agency that offers mediation,
conciliation, technical assistance, and training.
What if the
harassment continues?
If harassment
persists, consider filing a formal grievance with the
district and contacting the U.S. Department of
Educations Office for Civil Rights and from the U.S.
Department of Justices Civil Rights Division.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/laws/federal/index.html
Harassment
and Bullying (October 26, 2010) Background, Summary, and
Fast Facts
What are the possible effects of student-on-student
harassment and bullying?
- Lowered academic
achievement and aspirations
- Increased
anxiety
- Loss of
self-esteem and confidence
- Depression and
post-traumatic stress
- General
deterioration in physical health
- Self-harm and
suicidal thinking
- Feelings of
alienation in the school environment, such as fear of
other children
- Absenteeism from
school
What does the Dear
Colleague letter (DCL) do?
- Clarifies the
relationship between bullying and discriminatory
harassment under the civil rights laws enforced by the
Department of Educations (ED) Office for Civil
Rights (OCR).
- Explains how
student misconduct that falls under an anti-bullying
policy also may trigger responsibilities under one or
more of the anti-discrimination statutes enforced by
OCR.
- Reminds schools
that failure to recognize discriminatory harassment when
addressing student misconduct may lead to inadequate or
inappropriate responses that fail to remedy violations of
students civil rights. Colleges and universities
have the same obligations under the anti-discrimination
statutes as elementary and secondary schools.
- Discusses racial
and national origin harassment, sexual harassment,
gender-based harassment, and disability harassment and
illustrates how a school should respond in each
case.
Why is ED Issuing
the DCL?
ED is issuing the DCL
to clarify the relationship between bullying and
discriminatory harassment, and to remind schools that by
limiting their responses to a specific application of an
anti-bullying or other disciplinary policy, they may fail to
properly consider whether the student misconduct also
results in discrimination in violation of students
federal civil rights.
What are the
anti-discrimination statutes that the Office for Civil
Rights enforces?
- Title VI of the
Civil Rights Act of 1964, which prohibits discrimination
on the basis of race, color, or national
origin.
- Title IX of the
Education Amendments of 1972, which prohibits
discrimination on the basis of sex.
- Section 504 of the
Rehabilitation Act of 1973 and Title II of the Americans
with Disabilities Act of 1990, which prohibit
discrimination on the basis of disability.1
What are a
schools obligations under these anti-discrimination
statutes?
- Once a school
knows or reasonably should know of possible
student-on-student harassment, it must take immediate and
appropriate action to investigate or otherwise determine
what occurred.
- If harassment has
occurred, a school must take prompt and effective steps
reasonably calculated to end the harassment, eliminate
any hostile environment, and prevent its recurrence.
These duties are a schools responsibility even if
the misconduct also is covered by an anti-bullying policy
and regardless of whether the student makes a complaint,
asks the school to take action, or identifies the
harassment as a form of discrimination.
How can I get help
from OCR?
OCR offers technical
assistance to help schools achieve voluntary compliance with
the civil rights laws it enforces and works with schools to
develop creative approaches to preventing and addressing
discrimination. A school should contact the OCR enforcement
office serving its jurisdiction for technical assistance.
For contact information, please visit EDs website at
wdcrobcolp01.ed.gov/CFAPPS/OCR/contactus.cfm
A complaint of
discrimination can be filed by anyone who believes that a
school that receives Federal financial assistance has
discriminated against someone on the basis of race, color,
national origin, sex, disability, or age. The person or
organization filing the complaint need not be a victim of
the alleged discrimination, but may complain on behalf of
another person or group. Information about how to file a
complaint with OCR is at www2.ed.gov/about/offices/list/ocr/complaintintro.html
or by contacting OCRs Customer Service Team at
1-800-421-3481.
1 OCR also
enforces the Age Discrimination Act of 1975 and the Boy
Scouts of America Equal Access Act. The DCL does not address
these statutes.
Source:
www2.ed.gov/print/about/offices/list/ocr/docs/dcl-factsheet-201010.html
Be
more than a bystander
Every day, kids witness bullying. They want to help, but
dont know how. Fortunately, there are a few simple,
safe ways that children can help stop bullying when they see
it happening. Be sure to talk to the child about how they
can be more than a bystander.
Those who witness
bullying can:
Use their cell
phone to record as much of the incident as
possible.
Be a friend to the
person being bullied.
Children can help
someone whos been bullied by simply being nice to them
at another time. Being friendly can go a long way toward
letting them know that theyre not alone.
- A bystander can
help by spending time with the person being bullied at
school. Simple gestures like talking to them, sitting
with them at lunch, or inviting them to play sports or
other games during physical education or recess can help
a lot.
- Advise the child
to listen to the person being bullied, let them talk
about the event.
- They can call the
person being bullied at home to provide support,
encourage them and give advice.
- Bystanders can try
sending a text message or going up to the person who was
bullied later. They can let that person know that what
happened wasnt cool, and that theyre there
for them.
- A bystander can
help by telling the person being bullied that they
dont like the bullying and asking them if he can do
anything to help.
- Bystanders can
also help the person being bullied talk to a trusted
adult.
Tell a trusted
adult, like a family member, teacher or
coach.
An adult can help stop
bullying by intervening while its in progress,
stopping it from occurring or simply giving the person being
bullied a shoulder to lean on.
- Bystanders can
tell a trusted adult in person or leave them a
note.
- If bullying is
occurring, bystanders can go find, or ask a friend to
find, a trusted adult as soon as possible. Perhaps they
can help stop it from continuing.
- Remind children
who witness bullying not to get discouraged if
theyve already talked to an adult and nothing has
happened. They can ask a family member if they will help,
and make sure the adult knows that it is repeated
behavior.
- Try talking to as
many adults as possible if theres a
problemteachers, counselors, custodians, nurses,
parentsthe more adults they involve the
better.
Help the person
being bullied to get away from the situation.
There are a few
simple, safe ways children can help the person being bullied
get away from the situation. However they do it, make sure
the child knows not to put themselves in harms
way.
- Create a
distraction. If no one is rewarding the child who is
bullying by paying attention, the behavior may stop.
Bystanders can help to focus the attention on something
else.
- A bystander can
offer a way for the person being bullied to leave the
scene by saying something like, Mr. Smith needs to
see you right now, or Come on, we need you
for our game.
- Remind children to
only intervene if it feels safe to do so, and never use
violence in order to help the person get
away.
Set a good example.
Do not bully others.
If a child knows not
to bully others, then other students will follow their
example. To help even more, children can actively
participate in anti-bullying activities and
projects.
- Make sure children
dont bully others and dont encourage bullying
behavior.
- Encourage them to
look for opportunities to contribute to the anti-bullying
culture at their school through school clubs and
organizations.
- They can create
anti-bullying posters, share stories or show
presentations promoting respect for all.
- Use tools like the
youth leaders toolkit to help older teens work with
younger children to prevent bullying.
Dont give
bullying an audience.
If one of your
childs friends or peers begins to bully someone, they
shouldnt encourage the behavior by giving it an
audience. Instead of laughing or supporting, they can let
the bully know that his or her behavior isn't
entertaining.
- Oftentimes, those
who bully are encouraged by the attention that they
receive from bystanders. Children can help stop bullying
by actively not supporting it.
- Remind them that
when they see bullying, they can act disinterested or
blatantly state that they dont think bullying is
entertaining or funny.
- Children can help
by keeping their distance from the situation. If they
ignore it, it may stop.
- If the bullying
doesnt stop, the bystander should follow other tips
like telling a trusted adult.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/respond/be-more-than-a-bystander/index.html
Oregon
Anti-Bullying Laws & Policies
What term is used in the Oregon anti-bullying
laws?
Harassment,
intimidation, or bullying.
Do these laws cover
cyberbullying?
Yes.
What groups are
listed under Oregon state law?
The following groups
are listed under Oregon law, although not limited to
behavior based on characteristics:
- Race
- Color
- Religion
- Sex
- Sexual
orientation
- National
origin
- Marital
status
- Familial
status
- Source of
income
- Disability
Schools that receive
federal funding are required by federal law to address
discrimination on a number of different personal
characteristics. Find out when bullying may be a civil
rights violation.
Is there a state
model policy I can use to create anti-bullying policies at
my school or district?
A state model policy
is available at the Oregon
Department of Education
Which of the key
components can be found in Oregon anti-bullying laws and
policies?
|
Present
in
|
Key
Components
|
Oregon
State Laws
|
Oregon
Model Policy
|
DEFINITIONS
|
Purpose
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Scope
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Prohibited
Behavior
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Enumerated
Groups
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
DISTRICT
POLICY REVIEW & DEVELOPMENT
|
District
Policy
|
Yes
|
N/A
|
District
Policy Review
|
Yes
|
N/A
|
DISTRICT
POLICY COMPONENTS
|
Definitions
|
Yes
|
N/A
|
Reporting
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Investigations
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Written
Records
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Consequences
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Mental
Health
|
No
|
No
|
ADDITIONAL
COMPONENTS
|
Communications
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Training/Prevention
|
Yes
|
Yes
|
Transparency/Monitoring
|
No
|
No
|
Legal
Remedies
|
Yes
|
No
|
NOTE:
Click on the Key Components links to get more
information about that component.
|
What are the Oregon
state laws that cover bullying?
- Oregon Revised
Statute §339.351 Definitions
- Oregon Revised
Statute §339.353 Findings
- Oregon Revised
Statute §339.356 District policy
required
- Oregon Revised
Statute §339.359 Training programs;
prevention task forces, programs and other
initiatives
- Oregon Revised
Statute §339.362 Retaliation against victims
and witnesses prohibited; school employee
immunity
- Oregon Revised
Statute §339.364 Victim may seek redress
under other laws
Source: www.leg.state.or.us/ors/339.html
For More
Information
See
School
Bullying: Policies, Laws and
Resources
by the Oregon Department of Education.
Information for this
page was developed from Analysis
of State Bullying Laws and Policies December
2011
(U.S. Department of Education). 202 pages
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/laws/oregon.html
Are
we happy with the minimum the law requires or are we open to
going beyond the minimum legal expectations?
California Legislative History Education Code
Statutes
2010 California Assembly Bill No. 2791 California
Education Code §32280 California Education Code
§32281 California Education Code §32282 California
Education Code §32282.5 California Education Code
§32283 California Education Code §32284 California
Education Code §32285 California Education Code
§32286 California Education Code §32287 California
Education Code §32288 California Education Code
§32289
2008 California Assembly Bill No. 86 California
Education Code §32261 California Education Code
§32265 California Education Code §32270 California
Education Code §48900
2006 California Assembly Bill No. 606 Safe
Place to Learn Act California Education Code §234
California Education Code §234.1 California Education
Code §234.2 California Education Code §234.3
2003 California Senate Bill No. 719 California
Education Code §32260 California Education Code
§32261 California Education Code §32262 California
Education Code §32265 California Education Code
§32270 2003 California Senate Bill No. 257, Chapter 890
California Education Code §32261 California Education
Code §32270 California Education Code §32271
California Education Code §32280 California Education
Code §32290 California Education Code §35294.2
California Education Code §32295
2001 California Assembly Bill No. 79, Chapter 646
California Education Code §35294.2
1998 California Assembly Bill No. 499 California
Education Code §220 California Education Code
§220.1 1998 California Senate Bill No. 1751 California
Education Code §32275
Criminal Code Statutes California Penal Code
§422.55 California Penal Code §422.56 California
Penal Code §422.57
Consolidated List of Bullying Laws in State Legislative
Analysis California Education Code §32261
California Education Code §32262 California Education
Code §32265 California Education Code §32270
California Education Code §35294.2 California Education
Code §48900
State Model Policies/Guidance Documents Sample Policy
for Bullying Prevention Sample Policy for Conflict
Resolution
Source:
www.cde.ca.gov/ls/ss/se/samplepolicy.asp
Oregon
Legislative History
Legislative History
Education Code Statutes
2009 Oregon House Bill No. 2599 Oregon Revised
Statute §339.351 Definitions. Oregon Revised
Statute §339.356 District policy required.
Oregon Revised Statute §339.359 Training
programs; prevention task forces, programs and other
initiatives.
2007 Oregon House Bill No. 2637 Oregon Revised Statute
§339.351 Definitions. Oregon Revised Statute
§339.353 Findings. Oregon Revised Statute
§339.356 District policy required. Oregon
Revised Statute §339.359 Training programs;
prevention task forces, programs and other initiatives.
Oregon Revised Statute §339.362 Retaliation
against victims and witnesses prohibited; school employee
immunity. Oregon Revised Statute §339.364 Victim
may seek redress under other laws.
2001 Oregon House Bill No. 3403 Oregon Revised Statute
§339.351 Definitions. Oregon Revised Statute
§339.353 Findings. Oregon Revised Statute
§339.356 District policy required. Oregon
Revised Statute §339.359 Harassment,
intimidation or bullying prevention task forces, programs,
and other initiatives. Oregon Revised Statute §339.362
District shall adopt a policy prohibiting harassment,
intimidation or bullying. Oregon Revised Statute
§339.364 Victim may seek redress under other
laws.
1997 Oregon House Bill No. 3544 Two-Year Pilot
Program Oregon Revised Statute §163.730
Definitions for ORS §30.866 and §163.730 to
§163.750 Oregon Revised Statute §163.732
Stalking. Oregon Revised Statute §166.065
Harassment.
Consolidated List of Bullying Laws in State Legislative
Analysis Oregon Revised Statute §339.351
Definitions. Oregon Revised Statute §339.353
Findings. Oregon Revised Statute §339.356
District policy required. Oregon Revised Statute
§339.359 Training programs; prevention task
forces, programs and other initiatives. Oregon Revised
Statute §339.362 Retaliation against victims and
witnesses prohibited; school employee immunity. Oregon
Revised Statute §339.364 Victim may seek redress
under other laws.
State Model Policies/Guidance Documents Memorandum
No. §002-2009-10 Harassment, Intimidation, and
Bullying Policy and Procedures
Source:
www.ode.state.or.us/news/announcements/announcement.aspx?=5118
Washington
Legislative History
Legislative History
Education Code Statutes
2010 Washington Substitute House Bill No. 2801
Harassment, Intimidation, and Bullying Washington Revised
Code §28A.300.285 Harassment, intimidation, and
bullying prevention policies and procedures. Washington
Revised Code §43.06B.060 Public school
antiharassment policies and strategies lead agency.
2007 Washington Substitute Senate Bill No. 5288
Cyberbullying Washington Revised Code
§28A.300.285 Harassment, intimidation, and
bullying prevention policies and procedures.
2002 Washington House Bill No. 1444 Bullying
Washington Revised Code §28A.300.285 Harassment,
intimidation, and bullying prevention policies and
procedures. Washington Revised Code §28A.600.480
Reporting of harassment, intimidation, or bullying.
2001 Washington Senate Bill No. 6153
2001 Washington House Bill No. 1041 (same as Senate
Bill No. 5842) Washington Revised Code §28A.640.020
Sexual harassment policies.
Criminal Code Statutes Washington Revised Code
§9.61.260 Cyberstalking. Washington Revised Code
§9A.36.080(3) Specific characteristics.
Washington Revised Code §9A.46.020 Definition,
penalties harassment. Washington Revised Code
§9A.46.110 Stalking. Washington Revised Code
§10.14.20 Definitions.
Consolidated List of Bullying Laws in State Legislative
Analysis Washington Revised Code §9A.36.080(3)
Specific characteristics. Washington Revised Code
§28A.300.285 Harassment, intimidation, and
bullying prevention policies and procedures. Washington
Revised Code §28A.600.480 Reporting of
harassment, intimidation, or bullying. Washington Revised
Code §43.06B.060 Public school antiharassment
policies and strategies lead agency.
State Model Policies/Guidance Documents The
Prohibition of Harassment, Intimidation and Bullying,
Policy/Procedure No. 3207P
Source:
www.k12.wa.us/SafetyCenter/Guidance/pubdocs/Anti-BullyingProcedureFinal.pdf
What
is Bullying
Bullying Definition
Bullying is unwanted,
aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves
a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is
repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time.
Both kids who are bullied and who bully others may have
serious, lasting problems.
In order to be
considered bullying, the behavior must be aggressive and
include:
- An Imbalance of
Power: Kids who bully use their powersuch as
physical strength, access to embarrassing information, or
popularityto control or harm others. Power
imbalances can change over time and in different
situations, even if they involve the same
people.
- Repetition:
Bullying behaviors happen more than once or have the
potential to happen more than once.
Bullying includes
actions such as making threats, spreading rumors, attacking
someone physically or verbally, and excluding someone from a
group on purpose.
- Types of
Bullying
- Where and When
Bullying Happens
- Frequency of
Bullying
Types of Bullying
There are three types
of bullying:
Verbal
bullying is saying or writing mean things. Verbal
bullying includes:
- Teasing
- Name-calling
- Inappropriate
sexual comments
- Taunting
- Threatening to
cause harm
Social bullying,
sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves
hurting someones reputation or relationships.
Social bullying includes:
- Leaving someone
out on purpose
- Telling other
children not to be friends with someone
- Spreading
rumors about someone
- Embarrassing
someone in public
Physical bullying
involves hurting a persons body or possessions.
Physical bullying includes:
- Hitting/kicking/pinching
- Spitting
- Tripping/pushing
- Taking or
breaking someones things
- Making mean or
rude hand gestures
Where and When
Bullying Happens
Bullying can occur
during or after school hours. While most reported bullying
happens in the school building, a significant percentage
also happens in places like on the playground or the bus. It
can also happen travelling to or from school, in the
youths neighborhood, or on the Internet.
Frequency of
Bullying
There are two sources
of federally collected data on youth bullying:
The 2011
Youth
Risk Behavior Surveillance System
(Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) indicates
that, nationwide, 20% of students in grades 912
experienced bullying.
The 20082009
School
Crime Supplement
(National Center for Education Statistics and Bureau of
Justice Statistics) indicates that, nationwide, 28% of
students in grades 612 experienced
bullying.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/what-is-bullying/definition/index.html
What
is Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is bullying that takes place using
electronic technology. Electronic technology includes
devices and equipment such as cell phones, computers, and
tablets as well as communication tools including social
media sites, text messages, chat, and websites.
Examples of
cyberbullying include mean text messages or emails, rumors
sent by email or posted on social networking sites, and
embarrassing pictures, videos, websites, or fake
profiles.
- Why Cyberbullying
is Different
- Effects of
Cyberbullying
- Frequency of
Cyberbullying
Why Cyberbullying
is Different
Kids who are being
cyberbullied are often bullied in person as well.
Additionally, kids who are cyberbullied have a harder time
getting away from the behavior.
- Cyberbullying can
happen 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and reach a kid
even when he or she is alone. It can happen any time of
the day or night.
- Cyberbullying
messages and images can be posted anonymously and
distributed quickly to a very wide audience. It can be
difficult and sometimes impossible to trace the
source.
- Deleting
inappropriate or harassing messages, texts, and pictures
is extremely difficult after they have been posted or
sent.
Effects of
Cyberbullying
Cell phones and
computers themselves are not to blame for cyberbullying.
Social media sites can be used for positive activities, like
connecting kids with friends and family, helping students
with school, and for entertainment. But these tools can also
be used to hurt other people. Whether done in person or
through technology, the effects of bullying are
similar.
Kids who are
cyberbullied are more likely to:
- Use alcohol and
drugs
- Skip
school
- Experience
in-person bullying
- Be unwilling to
attend school
- Receive poor
grades
- Have lower
self-esteem
- Have more health
problems
Frequency of
Cyberbullying
The 20082009
School
Crime Supplement
(National Center for Education Statistics and Bureau of
Justice Statistics) indicates that 6% of students in grades
612 experienced cyberbullying.
The 2011
Youth
Risk Behavior Surveillance Survey
finds that 16% of high school students (grades 9-12) were
electronically bullied in the past year.
Research on
cyberbullying is growing. However, because kids
technology use changes rapidly, it is difficult to design
surveys that accurately capture trends.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/what-is-it/index.html
Who's
at Risk?
No single factor puts a child at risk of being bullied
or bullying others. Bullying can happen
anywherecities, suburbs, or rural towns. Depending on
the environment, some groupssuch as lesbian,
gay, bisexual, or transgendered (LGBT)
youth,
youth
with disabilities
, and socially isolated youthmay be at an increased
risk of being bullied.
Children at Risk of
Being Bullied
Generally, children
who are bullied have one or more of the following risk
factors:
- Are perceived as
different from their peers, such as being overweight or
underweight, wearing glasses or different clothing, being
new to a school, or being unable to afford what kids
consider cool
- Are perceived as
weak or unable to defend themselves
- Are depressed,
anxious, or have low self esteem
- Are less popular
than others and have few friends
- Do not get along
well with others, seen as annoying or provoking, or
antagonize others for attention
However, even if a
child has these risk factors, it doesnt mean that they
will be bullied.
Children More
Likely to Bully Others
There are two types of
kids who are more likely to bully others:
- Some are
well-connected to their peers, have social power, are
overly concerned about their popularity, and like to
dominate or be in charge of others.
- Others are more
isolated from their peers and may be depressed or
anxious, have low self esteem, be less involved in
school, be easily pressured by peers, or not identify
with the emotions or feelings of others.
Children who have
these factors are also more likely to bully
others;
- Are aggressive or
easily frustrated
- Have less parental
involvement or having issues at home
- Think badly of
others
- Have difficulty
following rules
- View violence in a
positive way
- Have friends who
bully others
Remember, those who
bully others do not need to be stronger or bigger than those
they bully. The power imbalance can come from a number of
sourcespopularity, strength, cognitive
abilityand children who bully may have more than one
of these characteristics.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/at-risk/factors/index.html
Warning
Signs
There are many warning signs that may indicate that
someone is affected by bullyingeither being bullied or
bullying others. Recognizing the warning signs is an
important first step in taking action against bullying. Not
all children who are bullied or are bullying others ask for
help.
It is important to
talk with children who show signs of being bullied or
bullying others. These warning signs can also point to other
issues or problems, such as depression or substance abuse.
Talking to the child can help identify the root of the
problem.
- Signs a Child is
Being Bullied
- Signs a Child is
Bullying Others
- Why dont
kids ask for help?
Signs a Child is
Being Bullied
Look for changes in
the child. However, be aware that not all children who are
bullied exhibit warning signs.
Some signs that may
point to a bullying problem are:
- Unexplainable
injuries
- Lost or destroyed
clothing, books, electronics, or jewelry
- Frequent headaches
or stomach aches, feeling sick or faking
illness
- Changes in eating
habits, like suddenly skipping meals or binge eating.
Kids may come home from school hungry because they did
not eat lunch.
- Difficulty
sleeping or frequent nightmares
- Declining grades,
loss of interest in schoolwork, or not wanting to go to
school
- Sudden loss of
friends or avoidance of social situations
- Feelings of
helplessness or decreased self esteem
- Self-destructive
behaviors such as running away from home, harming
themselves, or talking about suicide
If you know someone in
serious distress or danger, dont ignore the problem.
Get help right away.
Signs a Child is
Bullying Others
Kids may be bullying
others if they:
- Get into physical
or verbal fights
- Have friends who
bully others
- Are increasingly
aggressive
- Get sent to the
principals office or to detention
frequently
- Have unexplained
extra money or new belongings
- Blame others for
their problems
- Dont accept
responsibility for their actions
- Are competitive
and worry about their reputation or
popularity
Why don't kids ask
for help?
Statistics from the
20082009 School Crime Supplement show that an adult
was notified in only about a third of bullying cases. Kids
dont tell adults for many reasons:
- Bullying can make
a child feel helpless. Kids may want to handle it on
their own to feel in control again. They may fear being
seen as weak or a tattletale.
- Kids may fear
backlash from the kid who bullied them.
- Bullying can be a
humiliating experience. Kids may not want adults to know
what is being said about them, whether true or false.
They may also fear that adults will judge them or punish
them for being weak.
- Kids who are
bullied may already feel socially isolated. They may feel
like no one cares or could understand.
- Kids may fear
being rejected by their peers. Friends can help protect
kids from bullying, and kids can fear losing this
support.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/at-risk/warning-signs/index.html
Effects
of Bullying
Bullying can affect everyonethose who are bullied,
those who bully, and those who witness bullying. Bullying is
linked to many negative outcomes including impacts on mental
health, substance use, and suicide. It is important to talk
to kids to determine whether bullyingor something
elseis a concern.
- Kids Who are
Bullied
- Kids Who Bully
Others
- Bystanders
- The Relationship
between Bullying and Suicide
Kids Who are
Bullied
Kids who are bullied
can experience negative physical, school, and mental health
issues. Kids who are bullied are more likely to
experience:
- Depression and
anxiety, increased feelings of sadness and loneliness,
changes in sleep and eating patterns, and loss of
interest in activities they used to enjoy. These issues
may persist into adulthood.
- Health
complaints
- Decreased academic
achievementGPA and standardized test
scoresand school participation. They are more
likely to miss, skip, or drop out of school.
A very small number of
bullied children might retaliate through extremely violent
measures. In 12 of 15 school shooting cases in the 1990s,
the shooters had a history of being bullied.
Kids Who Bully
Others
Kids who bully others
can also engage in violent and other risky behaviors into
adulthood. Kids who bully are more likely to:
- Abuse alcohol and
other drugs in adolescence and as adults
- Get into fights,
vandalize property, and drop out of school
- Engage in early
sexual activity
- Have criminal
convictions and traffic citations as adults
- Be abusive toward
their romantic partners, spouses, or children as
adults
Bystanders
Kids who witness
bullying are more likely to:
- Have increased use
of tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs
- Have increased
mental health problems, including depression and
anxiety
- Miss or skip
school
The Relationship
between Bullying and Suicide
Media reports often
link bullying with suicide. However, most youth who are
bullied do not have thoughts of suicide or engage in
suicidal behaviors.
Although kids who are
bullied are at risk of suicide, bullying alone is not the
cause. Many issues contribute to suicide risk, including
depression, problems at home, and trauma history.
Additionally, specific groups have an increased risk of
suicide, including American Indian and Alaskan Native, Asian
American, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender youth.
This risk can be increased further when these kids are not
supported by parents, peers, and schools. Bullying can make
an unsupportive situation worse.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/at-risk/effects/index.html
Considerations
for Specific Groups
Schools and communities that respect diversity can help
protect children against bullying behavior. However, when
children perceived as different are not in supportive
environments, they may be at a higher risk of being bullied.
When working with kids from different groupsincluding
lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) youth and
youth with disabilities or special health care
needsthere are specific things you can do to prevent
and address bullying.
- LGBT
Youth
- Youth with
Disabilities or Other Special Health Needs
- Race, Ethnicity,
and National Origin
- Religion and
Faith
LGBT
Youth
Lesbian, gay,
bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) youth and those perceived as
LGBT are at an increased risk of being bullied. Families of
and people who work with LGBT youth have important and
unique considerations for strategies to prevent and
intervene in bullying.
Youth
with Disabilities or Other Special Health
Needs
Children with
disabilities or other special health needs may be at higher
risk of being bullied. There are specific ways you can
support these groups.
Race, Ethnicity,
and National Origin
It is not clear how
often kids get bullied because of their race, ethnicity, or
national origin. It is also unclear how often kids of the
same group bully each other. Research is still growing. We
do know, however, that Black and Hispanic youth who are
bullied are more likely to suffer academically than their
white peers.
Although no
specialized interventions have yet been developed or
identified, some federal partners have developed campaign
materials for specific racial and ethnic minority groups.
For example, the Indian Health Service within the Department
of Health and Human Services has developed a series of
materials for American Indian and Alaskan Native youth
called Stand Up, Stand Strong.
When bullying based on
race or ethnicity is severe, pervasive, or persistent it may
be considered harassment, which is covered under
federal
civil rights laws.
Religion and Faith
Very little research
has explored bullying based on religious differences.
Bullying in these situations may have less to do with a
persons beliefs and more to do with misinformation or
negative perceptions about how someone expresses that
belief.
For example, Muslim
girls who wear hijabs (head scarves), Sikh boys who wear
patka or dastaar (turbans), and Jewish boys who wear
yarmulkes report being targeted because of these visible
symbols of their religions. These items are sometimes used
as tools to bully Muslim, Sikh, and Jewish youth when they
are forcefully removed by others. Several reports also
indicate a rise in anti-Muslim and anti-Sikh bullying over
the past decade that may have roots in a perceived
association of their religious heritage and
terrorism.
When bullying based on
religion is severe, pervasive, or persistent, the Department
of Justices Civil Rights Division may be able to
intervene under Title
IV of the Civil Rights Act.
Often religious
harassment is not based on the religion itself but on shared
ethnic characteristics. When harassment is based on shared
ethnic characteristics, the Department of Educations
Office for Civil Rights may be able to intervene under Title
VI of the Civil Rights Act.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/at-risk/groups/index.html
How
to Talk About Bullying
Parents, school staff, and other caring adults have a
role to play in preventing bullying. They can:
- Help kids
understand bullying. Talk about what bullying is and how
to stand up to it safely. Tell kids bullying is
unacceptable. Make sure kids know how to get
help.
- Keep the lines of
communication open. Check in with kids often. Listen to
them. Know their friends, ask about school, and
understand their concerns.
- Encourage kids to
do what they love. Special activities, interests, and
hobbies can boost confidence, help kids make friends, and
protect them from bullying behavior.
- Model how to treat
others with kindness and respect.
Help Kids
Understand Bullying
Kids who know what
bullying is can better identify it. They can talk about
bullying if it happens to them or others. Kids need to know
ways to safely stand up to bullying and how to get
help.
- Encourage kids to
speak to a trusted adult if they are bullied or see
others being bullied. The adult can give comfort,
support, and advice, even if they cant solve the
problem directly. Encourage the child to report bullying
if it happens.
- Talk about how to
stand up to kids who bully. Give tips, like using humor
and saying stop directly and confidently.
Talk about what to do if those actions dont work,
like walking away
- Talk about
strategies for staying safe, such as staying near adults
or groups of other kids.
- Urge them to help
kids who are bullied by showing kindness or getting
help.
- Watch the short
webisodes and discuss them with kids.
Keep the Lines of
Communication Open
Research tells us that
children really do look to parents and caregivers for advice
and help on tough decisions. Sometimes spending 15 minutes a
day talking can reassure kids that they can talk to their
parents if they have a problem. Start conversations about
daily life and feelings with questions like
these:
- What was one good
thing that happened today? Any bad things?
- What is lunch time
like at your school? Who do you sit with? What do you
talk about?
- What is it like to
ride the school bus?
- What are you good
at? What would do you like best about
yourself?
Talking about bullying
directly is an important step in understanding how the issue
might be affecting kids. There are no right or wrong answers
to these questions, but it is important to encourage kids to
answer them honestly. Assure kids that they are not alone in
addressing any problems that arise. Start conversations
about bullying with questions like these:
- What does
bullying mean to you?
- Describe what kids
who bully are like. Why do you think people
bully?
- Who are the adults
you trust most when it comes to things like
bullying?
- Have you ever felt
scared to go to school because you were afraid of
bullying? What ways have you tried to change
it?
- What do you think
parents can do to help stop bullying?
- Have you or your
friends left other kids out on purpose? Do you think that
was bullying? Why or why not?
- What do you
usually do when you see bullying going on?
- Do you ever see
kids at your school being bullied by other kids? How does
it make you feel?
- Have you ever
tried to help someone who is being bullied? What
happened? What would you do if it happens
again?
Get more ideas for
talking with children about life and about bullying. If
concerns come up, be sure to respond.
There are simple ways
that parents and caregivers can keep up-to-date with
kids lives.
- Read class
newsletters and school flyers. Talk about them at
home.
- Check the school
website
- Go to school
events
- Greet the bus
driver
- Meet teachers and
counselors at Back to School night or reach
out by email
- Share phone
numbers with other kids parents
- Teachers and
school staff also have a role to play.
Encourage Kids to
Do What They Love
Help kids take part in
activities, interests, and hobbies they like. Kids can
volunteer, play sports, sing in a chorus, or join a youth
group or school club. These activities give kids a chance to
have fun and meet others with the same interests. They can
build confidence and friendships that help protect kids from
bullying.
Model How to Treat
Others with Kindness and Respect
Kids learn from
adults actions. By treating others with kindness and
respect, adults show the kids in their lives that there is
no place for bullying. Even if it seems like they are not
paying attention, kids are watching how adults manage stress
and conflict, as well as how they treat their friends,
colleagues, and families.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/prevention/talking-about-it/index.html
Prevention
at School
Bullying can threaten students physical and
emotional safety at school and can negatively impact their
ability to learn. The best way to address bullying is to
stop it before it starts. There are a number of things
school staff can do to make schools safer and prevent
bullying.
Getting
Started
Assess school
prevention and intervention efforts around student behavior,
including substance use and violence. You may be able to
build upon them or integrate bullying prevention strategies.
Many programs help address the same protective and risk
factors that bullying programs do.
Assess Bullying in
Your School
Conduct assessments in
your school to determine how often bullying occurs, where it
happens, how students and adults intervene, and whether your
prevention efforts are working.
Engage Parents and
Youth
It is important for
everyone in the community to work together to send a unified
message against bullying. Launch an awareness campaign to
make the objectives known to the school, parents, and
community members. Establish a school safety committee or
task force to plan, implement, and evaluate your school's
bullying prevention program.
Create Policies and
Rules
Create a mission
statement, code of conduct, school-wide rules, and a
bullying reporting system. These establish a climate in
which bullying is not acceptable. Disseminate and
communicate widely.
Build a Safe
Environment
Establish a school
culture of acceptance, tolerance and respect. Use staff
meetings, assemblies, class and parent meetings, newsletters
to families, the school website, and the student handbook to
establish a positive climate at school. Reinforce positive
social interactions and inclusiveness.
Educate Students
and School Staff
Build bullying
prevention material into the curriculum and school
activities. Train teachers and staff on the schools
rules and policies. Give them the skills to intervene
consistently and appropriately.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/prevention/at-school/index.html
Working
in the Community
Bullying can be prevented, especially when the power of
a community is brought together. Community-wide strategies
can help identify and support children who are bullied,
redirect the behavior of children who bully, and change the
attitudes of adults and youth who tolerate bullying
behaviors in peer groups, schools, and
communities.
- The Benefits of
Working Together
- Potential
Partners
- Community
Strategies
- Additional
Resources
The Benefits of
Working Together
Bullying doesnt
happen only at school. Community members can use their
unique strengths and skills to prevent bullying wherever it
occurs. For example, youth sports groups may train coaches
to prevent bullying. Local businesses may make t-shirts with
bullying prevention slogans for an event. After-care staff
may read books about bullying to kids and discuss them.
Hearing anti-bullying messages from the different adults in
their lives can reinforce the message for kids that bullying
is unacceptable.
Potential
Partners
Involve anyone who
wants to learn about bullying and reduce its impact in the
community. Consider involving businesses, local
associations, adults who work directly with kids, parents,
and youth.
- Identify partners
such as mental health specialists, law enforcement
officers, neighborhood associations, service groups,
faith-based organizations, and businesses.
- Learn what types
of bullying community members see and discuss developing
targeted solutions.
- Involve youth.
Teens can take leadership roles in bullying prevention
among younger kids.
Community
Strategies
Study community
strengths and needs:
- Ask: Who is most
affected? Where? What kinds of bullying happen most? How
do kids and adults react? What is already being done in
our local area to help?
- Think about using
opinion surveys, interviews, and focus groups to answer
these questions. Learn how schools assess
bullying.
- Consider open
forums like group discussions with community leaders,
businesses, parent groups, and churches.
Develop a
comprehensive community strategy:
- Review what you
learned from your community study to develop a common
understanding of the problem.
- Establish a shared
vision about bullying in the community, its impact, and
how to stop it.
- Identify audiences
to target and tailor messages as appropriate.
- Describe what each
partner will do to help prevent and respond to
bullying.
- Advocate for
bullying prevention policies in schools and throughout
the community.
- Raise awareness
about your message. Develop and distribute print
materials. Encourage local radio, TV, newspapers, and
websites to give public service announcements prime
space. Introduce bullying prevention to groups that work
with kids.
- Track your
progress over time. Evaluate to ensure you are refining
your approach based on solid data, not
anecdotes.
Additional
Resources
Three
Bold Steps for School Community Change: A Toolkit for
Community Leaders
(Safe Schools/Healthy Students). This kit shows how
partnerships with people from different parts of a community
can create positive, lasting change for students.
Striving
to Reduce Youth Violence Everywhere
(STRYVE) is a national youth violence prevention effort.
STRYVE Online helps communities with access to information
and tools, effective strategies, training and technical
assistance, and online community workspaces.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/prevention/in-the-community/index.html
Stop
Bullying on the Spot
When adults respond quickly and consistently to bullying
behavior they send the message that it is not acceptable.
Research shows this can stop bullying behavior over time.
There are simple steps adults can take to stop bullying on
the spot and keep kids safe.
Do:
- Intervene
immediately. It is ok to get another adult to
help.
- Separate the kids
involved.
- Make sure everyone
is safe.
- Meet any immediate
medical or mental health needs.
- Stay calm.
Reassure the kids involved, including
bystanders.
- Model respectful
behavior when you intervene.
Avoid these common
mistakes:
- Dont ignore
it. Dont think kids can work it out without adult
help.
- Dont
immediately try to sort out the facts.
- Dont force
other kids to say publicly what they saw.
- Dont
question the children involved in front of other
kids.
- Dont talk to
the kids involved together, only separately.
- Dont make
the kids involved apologize or patch up relations on the
spot.
Get police help or
medical attention immediately if:
- A weapon is
involved.
- There are threats
of serious physical injury.
- There are threats
of hate-motivated violence, such as racism or
homophobia.
- There is serious
bodily harm.
- There is sexual
abuse.
- Anyone is accused
of an illegal act, such as robbery or
extortionusing force to get money, property, or
services.
Next
Steps
- Support the kids
involved
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/respond/index.html
Find
Out What Happened
Whether youve just stopped bullying on the spot or
a child has reached out to you for help, follow the steps
below to determine the best way to proceed.
- Get the
Facts
- Determine if
its Bullying
Get the Facts
- Keep all the
involved children separate.
- Get the story from
several sources, both adults and kids.
- Listen without
blaming.
- Dont call
the act bullying while you are trying to
understand what happened.
It may be difficult to
get the whole story, especially if multiple students are
involved or the bullying involves social bullying or
cyberbullying. Collect all available information.
Determine if it's
Bullying
There are many
behaviors that look like bullying but require different
approaches. It is important to determine whether the
situation is bullying or something else.
Review the definition
of bullying. State law and school policy may have additional
guidelines for defining bullying behavior.
To determine if this
is bullying or something else, consider the following
questions:
- What is the
history between the kids involved? Have there been past
conflicts?
- Is there a power
imbalance? Remember that a power imbalance is not limited
to physical strength. It is sometimes not easily
recognized. If the targeted child feels like there is a
power imbalance, there probably is.
- Has this happened
before? Is the child worried it will happen
again?
- Have the kids
dated? There are special responses for teen dating
violence.
- Are any of the
kids involved with a gang? Gang violence has different
interventions.
Remember that it may
not matter who started it. Some kids who are
bullied may be seen as annoying or provoking, but this does
not excuse the bullying behavior.
Once you have
determined if the situation is bullying, support the kids
involved.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/respond/find-out-what-happened/index.html
Support
the Kids Involved
All kids involved in bullyingwhether they are
bullied, bully others, or see bullyingcan be affected.
It is important to support all kids involved to make sure
the bullying doesnt continue and effects can be
minimized.
- Support Kids Who
are Bullied
- Address Bullying
Behavior
- Support Bystanders
Who Witness Bullying
Support Kids Who
are Bullied
Listen and focus on
the child. Learn whats been going on and show you
want to help.
Assure the child
that bullying is not their fault.
Know that kids who
are bullied may struggle with talking about it. Consider
referring them to a school counselor, psychologist, or other
mental health service.
Give advice about
what to do. This may involve role-playing and thinking
through how the child might react if the bullying occurs
again.
Work together to
resolve the situation and protect the bullied child. The
child, parents, and school or organization may all have
valuable input. It may help to:
- Ask the child
being bullied what can be done to make him or her feel
safe. Remember that changes to routine should be
minimized. He or she is not at fault and should not be
singled out. For example, consider rearranging classroom
or bus seating plans for everyone. If bigger moves are
necessary, such as switching classrooms or bus routes,
the child who is bullied should not be forced to
change.
- Develop a game
plan. Maintain open communication between schools,
organizations, and parents. Discuss the steps that are
taken and the limitations around what can be done based
on policies and laws. Remember, the law does not allow
school personnel to discuss discipline, consequences, or
services given to other children.
Be persistent.
Bullying may not end overnight. Commit to making it stop
and consistently support the bullied child.
Avoid these
mistakes:
- Never tell the
child to ignore the bullying.
- Do not blame the
child for being bullied. Even if he or she provoked the
bullying, no one deserves to be bullied.
- Do not tell the
child to physically fight back against the kid who is
bullying. It could get the child hurt, suspended, or
expelled.
- Parents should
resist the urge to contact the other parents involved. It
may make matters worse. School or other officials can act
as mediators between parents.
Follow-up. Show
a commitment to making bullying stop. Because bullying is
behavior that repeats or has the potential to be repeated,
it takes consistent effort to ensure that it
stops.
Address Bullying
Behavior
Parents, school staff,
and organizations all have a role to play.
Make sure the child
knows what the problem behavior is. Young people who
bully must learn their behavior is wrong and harms
others.
Show kids that
bullying is taken seriously. Calmly tell the child that
bullying will not be tolerated. Model respectful behavior
when addressing the problem.
Work with the child
to understand some of the reasons he or she bullied. For
example:
- Sometimes children
bully to fit in. These kids can benefit from
participating in positive activities. Involvement in
sports and clubs can enable them to take leadership roles
and make friends without feeling the need to
bully.
- Other times kids
act out because something elseissues at home,
abuse, stressis going on in their lives. They also
may have been bullied. These kids may be in need of
additional support, such as mental health
services.
Use consequences to
teach. Consequences that involve learning or building
empathy can help prevent future bullying. School staff
should remember to follow the guidelines in their student
code of conduct and other policies in developing
consequences and assigning discipline. For example, the
child who bullied can:
- Lead a class
discussion about how to be a good friend.
- Write a story
about the effects of bullying or benefits of
teamwork.
- Role-play a
scenario or make a presentation about the importance of
respecting others, the negative effects of gossip, or how
to cooperate.
- Do a project about
civil rights and bullying.
- Read a book about
bullying.
- Make posters for
the school about cyberbullying and being smart
online.
Involve the kid who
bullied in making amends or repairing the situation. The
goal is to help them see how their actions affect others.
For example, the child can:
- Write a letter
apologizing to the student who was bullied.
- Do a good deed for
the person who was bullied or for others in your
community.
- Clean up, repair,
or pay for any property they damaged.
Avoid strategies
that dont work or have negative
consequences.
- Zero tolerance or
three strikes, youre out strategies
dont work. Suspending or expelling students who
bully does not reduce bullying behavior. Students and
teachers may be less likely to report and address
bullying if suspension or expulsion is the
consequence.
- Conflict
resolution and peer mediation dont work for
bullying. Bullying is not a conflict between people of
equal power who share equal blame. Facing those who have
bullied may further upset kids who have been
bullied.
- Group treatment
for students who bully doesnt work. Group members
tend to reinforce bullying behavior in each
other.
Follow-up.
After the bullying issue is resolved, continue finding ways
to help the child who bullied to understand how what they do
affects other people. For example, praise acts of kindness
or talk about what it means to be a good friend.
Support Bystanders
Who Witness Bullying
Even if kids are not
bullied or bullying others they can be affected by bullying.
Many times, when they see bullying, they may not know what
to do to stop it. They may not feel safe stepping in in the
moment, but there are many other steps they can take.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/respond/support-kids-involved/index.html
Get
Help Now
If you have done everything you can to resolve the
situation and nothing has worked, or someone is in immediate
danger, there are ways to get help.
The
problem
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What you
can do
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There has
been a crime or someone is at immediate risk of
harm.
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Call
911.
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Someone is
feeling hopeless, helpless, thinking of
suicide.
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Contact the
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline online at
1-800-273-TALK (8255) or the National Crisis Text
Line-Text SOS to 741741
The toll-free
call goes to the nearest crisis center in our
national network. These centers provide 24-hour
crisis counseling and mental health
referrals.
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Someone is
acting differently than normal, such as always
seeming sad or anxious, struggling to complete
tasks, or not being able care for
themselves.
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Find a local
counselor or other mental health
services
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A child is
being bullied in school.
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Contact
the:
- 1.Teacher
- 2.School
counselor
- 3.School
principal
- 4.School
superintendent
- 5.State
Department of Education
See more on
working
with the school.
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The school is
not adequately addressing harassment based on race,
color, national origin, sex, disability, or
religion.
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Contact:
- School
superintendent
- State
Department of Education
- U.S.
Department of Education, Office for Civil
Rights
- U.S.
Department of Justice, Civil Rights
Division
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Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/get-help-now/index.html
Oregon
Anti-Bullying Laws & Policies
http://www.stopbullying.gov/laws/oregon.html
Assess Bullying
Assessmentssuch
as surveyscan help schools determine the frequency and
locations of bullying behavior. They can also gauge the
effectiveness of current prevention and intervention
efforts. Knowing whats going on can help school staff
select appropriate prevention and response
strategies.
Assessments involve
asking school or community membersincluding
studentsabout their experiences and thoughts related
to bullying. An assessment is planned, purposeful, and uses
research tools.
- What an Assessment
Can Do
- Develop and
Implement an Assessment
What an Assessment
Can Do
Assess to:
- Know whats
going on. Adults underestimate the rates of bullying
because kids rarely report it and it often happens when
adults arent around. Assessing bullying through
anonymous surveys can provide a clear picture of what is
going on.
- Target efforts.
Understanding trends and types of bullying in your school
can help you plan bullying prevention and intervention
efforts.
- Measure results.
The only way to know if your prevention and intervention
efforts are working is to measure them over
time.
An assessment can
explore specific bullying topics, such as:
- Frequency and
types
- Adult and peer
response
- Locations,
including hot spots
- Staff perceptions
and attitudes about bullying
- Aspects of the
school or community that may support or help stop
it
- Student perception
of safety
- School
climate
Develop and
Implement an Assessment
Schools may choose to
use school-wide surveys to assess bullying. There are
several steps involved:
- Choose a survey.
There are many free, reliable, and validated assessment
tools available. Choose a set of measures that covers the
questions you want answered, is age appropriate, and can
be answered in a reasonable amount of time.
- Obtain parental
consent as your district requires. Some allow passive
consent, others require active consent. According to
federal guidelines, at a minimum, each year the Local
Education Agency (LEA), must notify parents about the
survey and when it will be conducted. Parents have the
right to opt their child out of the survey. Parents also
have the right to inspect and review the surveys before
they are given.
- Administer the
survey. School staff are best equipped to judge how to
carry out a survey at school, but these tips can
help:
- Administer
surveys early in the school year. Schedules surveys
after students are settled in a routine but there is
still time to use the findings in the school
years prevention efforts.
- Assess at least
once every school year. Some schools like to survey
students at the start and end of the school year to
track progress and plan activities for the following
year.
- Decide which
students will be surveyed to ensure statistically
significant results. Schools may choose school-wide
surveys or surveys of specific grades.
- Plan to
administer the survey when all students can take it at
once. This will reduce the chance that they will
discuss it and affect each others
answers.
- Protect student
privacy. Many surveys are subject to the Protection of
Pupil Rights Amendment (PPRA) and the Family Educational
Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA). Assure students that
their responses will be kept confidential and that their
answers cant be tracked back to them.
- Analyze and
distribute findings.
- Make sure you
continue to protect students privacy by ensuring
that no personally identifiable information is
accessible.
- Consider how
the survey results will be shared with teachers,
parents, and students.
- Make sure that you
are prepared to respond to the results of the survey.
Have a clear plan for prevention and intervention in
place or in development.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/prevention/at-school/assess-bullying/
Avoid
strategies that dont work or have negative
consequences
- Zero tolerance or
three strikes, youre out strategies
dont work. Suspending or expelling students who
bully does not reduce bullying behavior. Students and
teachers may be less likely to report and address
bullying if suspension or expulsion is the
consequence.
- Conflict
resolution and peer mediation dont work for
bullying. Bullying is not a conflict between people of
equal power who share equal blame. Facing those who have
bullied may further upset kids who have been
bullied.
- Group treatment
for students who bully doesnt work. Group members
tend to reinforce bullying behavior in each
other.
Source:
www.stopbullying.gov/respond/support-kids-involved/index.html
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