The issue of drugs can
be very confusing to young children. If drugs are so
dangerous, then why is the family medicine cabinet full of
them? And why do TV, movies, music and advertising often
make alcohol and drug use look so cool? We need to help our
kids to distinguish fact from fiction. And it's not too soon
to begin. National studies show that the average age when a
child first tries alcohol is 11; for marijuana, it's 12. And
many kids start becoming curious about these substances even
sooner. So let's get started! Listen
carefully Student surveys reveal
that when parents listen to their children's feelings and
concerns, their kids feel comfortable talking with them and
are more likely to stay drug and alcohol-free. Role play how to
say "no" Role play ways in
which your child can refuse to go along with his friends
without becoming a social
outcast. If
your child comes up with a good response, praise him. If he
doesn't, offer a few suggestions. Encourage
choice Allow your child
plenty of opportunity to become a confident
decision-maker.